☕ How to pray when your emotions don’t make sense


Helping Women Delight in God’s Word

👋 Hey friend,

Let's be honest...emotions are complicated. 🌀

It seems like every time someone asks how I'm doing, I find myself listing three or four different things going on...that I feel three or four different ways about!

Let me give you an example.

Recently someone asked me how I'm feeling about attending a new church, and I didn't know what to say! 😶

I’m grateful that God’s given me a new church home. 🤲
I’m also grieving the community I left behind. ❤️‍🩹
And at the same time, I’m excited to make new friends. 😄

Anyone else feeling an emotional whirlwind? 😵‍💫🤪

This week, Mentor Mama helped me reframe my emotions. Here’s what I learned:

1. Pay attention to joy and sorrow showing up together.
Think of moments like the birth of a child or the loss of a loved one… becoming a caretaker, watching a child leave for college, graduating. These changes stir up many emotions at once. Start by noticing them.

2. Notice the “but’s.”
When you say, “I’m exhausted… but I love what I’m doing,” you’re holding two truths at once. Practice naming both: “I’m tired and grateful.” That’s emotional maturity.

3. Name your emotions—both the good and the hard—in prayer.
God can handle your honesty. Remember Hannah (1 Sam 1–2), David (Psalm 6), and even Jesus (Matt 26–27). If they could bring their full selves to the Father, so can you.

Does this resonate? If so, don’t miss this week’s podcast episode. We dive deeper into this idea and how to live it out.

All our love,

Ashley, Taylor and Mentor Mama (Ellen)

Coffee and Bible Time Team

P.S. Have you grabbed your October prayer calendar? 🍂 Let’s pray through the first month of fall together.

🎙️ From the Podcast

Grieving & Grateful: Giving God Your Complex Emotions

Author Jillian Benfield joins us for a powerful conversation about how to stay grounded, honest, and fully human in life’s hardest seasons.

This week's faves:

Overwhelmed & Grateful: The Key to Finding God's Goodness in All Life's Ups & Downs

This book came exactly when I needed it. I know it's going to touch a lot of lives!

-Mentor Mama

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Even though I walk through
the darkest valley,
I fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
- Psalm 23:4-5 (NRSVue)

Quick Bible Study For When Life Is Crazy 😵‍💫

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